Have you ever had a dream so big it felt impossible? You know, the kind that makes a tiny voice whisper, “You don’t have what it takes…” But deep down, you know you can do this.
You were meant for something more.
The truth is, believing in what you choose is the first to do in your checklist of achieving anything worthwhile.
But what if I told you there’s a way to silence the doubts and turn that little voice into your biggest cheerleader?
For me, it was starting this blog. Six months ago, the idea of sharing my thoughts online was terrifying. Doubts and fears held me back.
But I believed in what I chose, even when it felt scary.
This post is your guide to believing in what you do, even when it feels scary. We’ll ditch the negativity, figure out how to take action, and get you the support you need to turn that dream into reality.
Stop thinking “maybe not” and start thinking “I have what it takes“
Let’s make it happen!
Why to believe in what you choose?
1. Belief Fuels Motivation: When you truly believe you can achieve something, a fire ignites within you.
It motivates you to take action, overcome obstacles, and persevere through challenges.
Imagine training for a marathon. Doubting your ability to finish the race will likely zap your motivation to train consistently.
But believing in yourself, picturing yourself crossing the finish line, fuels the dedication and hard work required to get you there.
2. Belief is a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy: Our beliefs have a powerful influence on our reality.
If you believe you can’t do something, you’ll likely approach it with a defeatist attitude, making it more likely you’ll actually fail.
Conversely, a strong belief in your abilities empowers you to say yes to the challenges with confidence.
This positive mindset increases your chances of success.
My Story – Let me share a story from my own experience. Six months ago, I wanted to join the content creation community. I had a burning desire to share my thoughts and ideas with the world.
The problem? I had no prior experience in any specific field. My family, though supportive, didn’t even understand about “side hustles.”
Starting a website or writing articles was very overwhelming. It was a confusing time, filled with self-doubt. “There are so many established creators out there; how would I rank?”
But I believed in what I chose.
The initial days were rough. I was a complete beginner, struggling with building website, writing articles, learning SEO.
With each problem, I reminded myself, “If I don’t know it, I can learn it. -Robin Sharma”. This belief fueled my determination to keep going.
Whenever something confused me, I reminded myself that others had done it and I can do it too.
Whenever self-doubt threatened to pull me under, I visualized myself successfully creating content and sharing my voice with the world.
What makes it hard to believe in what you do?
The road to believing in ourselves isn’t always smooth. It is often filled with self-doubt, fears and influences. Let’s look at some common roadblocks and how to overcome them:
1. Fear of Failure:
This is a big one. The fear of failing can be so paralyzing that it stops us from even trying.
We get caught up in the “what ifs” and imagine all the terrible outcomes, forgetting that even failures hold valuable lessons.
We have that feeling of failure because we are not familiar with it. Ask yourself “What makes me so determined that I will fail”.
2. Results vs. Progress:
Many of us focus too much on the end goal. We see the mountain we need to climb and get discouraged by how high it is. We measure success solely by the final outcome.
Instead, try a progress-oriented mindset.
Celebrate the small wins and each step you take.
Every completed task, every new skill learned, is a victory that builds confidence and strengthens your belief in what you do.
3. Negative Influences:
Sometimes, the biggest threats to our belief come from those around us.
Some people, often unintentionally, can act as “dream stealers,” or “negative naysayers” injecting negativity and doubt into your aspirations.
They might say things like, “You don’t have what it takes” or “That’s just not realistic.” These negative influences can be toxic to your self-trust.
Learn to identify and distance yourself from dream stealers.
Surround yourself with supportive people who believe in what you do, if not seek out online communities and connect with like-minded peoples who walked on your path.
4. Lack of Vision:
Think of Steve Jobs, the visionary co-founder of Apple. Imagine if Apple, the company that revolutionized technology, never existed.
It all started with Jobs’ unwavering belief in his vision. He could see the future of personal computers so clearly that he convinced others to believe too.
This power of vision is crucial for overcoming doubt. Take time to visualize your goals in detail. See yourself achieving them and feel the satisfaction of success.
This mental picture strengthens your belief and fuels your motivation.
Remember, you have the power to silence the naysayers, both internal and external. Surround yourself with positive, supportive people who believe in what you do.
Focus on the progress you’re making, not just the final destination. And most importantly, hold onto that vision – the clear picture of your dream becoming reality.
“No one will believe in you until you believe in you.” – Robin Sharma
This quote has really helped me whenever I have doubted my belief and took me back on the track I lost.
Keep this quote with you when you don’t believe in you.
Follow this to Believe in what you choose
1. Silence Your Doubts:
1. Challenge Negative Self-Talk: Your inner voice is a powerful tool. Instead of letting it tear you down with negativity, fight back with positive affirmations.
Read this post for knowing more about how you are what you say.
Instead of saying “This is too hard” or “I can’t do this” tell yourself that “Yes, I don’t know it, but I have the resources that can teach me how to do it.“
2. Focus on “I Can” Statements: When you face a challenge, don’t think about what you lack.
This reminds me of a quote from Robin Sharma – “Everything you now find easy you once found hard.” Think about it.
Shift your perspective and ask yourself, “How can I make this happen?” or “I can learn this skill”. This forces your mind to find ways that you can do it.
2. Take Action and Build Momentum:
1. Don’t Wait to be Sure: Sometimes, you won’t feel 100% certain doing it. But just starting, even small steps, shows you’re commited and builds momentum.
This progress fuels belief in your ability to make it happen. An actionable quote can really help you to focus on taking action.
“No idea will work until you do the work” – Robin Sharma
2. Break Down Big Goals: Giant goals can be scary and you may get paralyzed by seeing it. Break them down into smaller, achievable checkpoints.
Reaching these small wins reinforces your belief in your capability and motivates you to keep going.
My Website Journey: When I first started my content creation journey, I had this big vision of building a website that talks about personal development.
It was overwhelming what to do and how to do. So, I adopted the manageable milestone approach.
My first step was simply to learn how to set up a website. Then I learnt how to do keyword research, then how to write blog post, then how to use tools like WordPress and then it’s in front of you.
3. Find Inspiration and Support:
3. Surround Yourself with Believers: Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who support your dreams. These connections lift you up and make you believe in yourself and your dreams.
You can connect with them online. Follow different youtube channels, read the articles in your niche.
Simply read about those people who have already done it what you are going to do.
This will show your mind that it is real and possible. Others are ready to tell you how they did, so take the benefit and learn from them.
2. Learn from Success Stories: Read other stories who believed in themselves and overcame challenges.
Their journeys highlight the power of belief and perseverance, inspiring you to believe in what you choose.
4. Build Self-Trust:
1. Remember Your Past Wins: We all have moments where we doubted ourselves but pushed through and succeeded.
This is the time to reflect on those past achievements. Think back to a time you achieved something even though you were scared.
Reliving those victories reminds you of your inner strength and ability to overcome challenges, building trust in yourself.
2. See Yourself Winning: Take time to vividly imagine yourself achieving that dream. See yourself crossing the finish line and experiencing the joy of accomplishment.
This visualization strengthens your belief that you can win.
5. Be Kind to Yourself on the Journey:
There will be setbacks and moments of self-doubt.
Be gentle with yourself. Treat yourself like you would a friend going through a tough time.
You have to become your own coach..You have to motivate and inspire yourself to make this happen.
Self-compassion helps you bounce back stronger and keeps you believing in yourself.
By following these tips and working on your self-belief, you’ll build a strong foundation that will help you make your dreams a reality. Remember, belief in yourself is a muscle that gets stronger the more you use it!
Conclusion
It’s not about waiting for everything to be perfect, but about building a belief that lets you jump in and take action.
This means ditching the negative self-talk and replacing it with “I can do this!”.
Even small steps forward will build momentum and show you that you’re capable.
Surround yourself with positive people who believe in what you choose too. They’ll be your cheerleaders and help you celebrate your wins, big or small.
Remembering your past successes is a great way to boost your confidence.
Believe in yourself. Take action, no matter how small.
Remember, you are what you do, not what you say you’ll do. The power to achieve your dreams lies within you.
Start today!
All green lights to you.
I’ll talk to you soon.
Frequently asked questions
1. Is it possible to choose what you believe?
It can be difficult to choose what you believe. Beliefs are based on what seems convincing and true to you. You can’t necessarily force yourself to believe something you don’t have evidence for. It’s more about having evidence and a positive mindset to convince yourself something is likely true.
2. How do you choose what to believe in?
You don’t directly choose what to believe, but you can influence your beliefs.
- Look for facts and reasons that support something being true.
- Don’t just accept doubts, ask yourself if they’re realistic.
- Experiment and try things to see if they work for you.
- You can’t control everything, but you can control your attitude and how you approach things.
3. What made you believe in what you choose?
You learn things and gather information (evidence) from the world around you. This evidence, along with your past experiences, shapes what seems true or likely to you. You can’t force yourself to believe something with no evidence, but you can choose to focus on evidence that supports what you want to believe.
4. What made you believe in what you choose?
What you believe is what you become because your beliefs shape your actions and mindset. If you believe in yourself and your goals, you’re more likely to take the steps needed to achieve them. Positive beliefs lead to positive actions, while self-doubt and negative beliefs can hold you back.
So, while you can’t directly control your beliefs, you can influence them through your thoughts and actions.
5. How do we decide what to believe?
We decide what to believe by focusing on positive self-talk, avoiding negative ones, and trusting in our abilities. Surround yourself with supportive people and learn from others. Choose to have faith in your potential and take small steps to build confidence.
6. Does it matter what we believe?
Yes, it matters what we believe. Our beliefs shape our actions and our mindset. Positive beliefs help us stay motivated and take steps towards our goals, while negative beliefs can hold us back and create self-doubt.
7. How do we decide what to believe?
We decide what to believe by focusing on positive self-talk, avoiding negative ones, and trusting in our abilities. Surround yourself with supportive people and learn from others. Choose to have faith in your potential and take small steps to build confidence.
